This is not about taking a stand in the ongoing battle of Susan G. Komen versus Planned Parenthood.
This is about the overwhelming sadness of a meaning lost.
As an 8-time walker in the 3-Day Walk for the Cure, the conflict leaves me aching. For me, the 3-Day Walk is bigger than money or politics.
It is about…
Challenging yourself to achieve something you never dreamed possible.
Demonstrating your support to your sister, your aunt, your loved ones and all those affected by cancer in the most visible way you know how.
Sharing the experience with others who are hurting, healing and reaching out. Developing friendships from those who extend a hand to become your teammates, who help pick you up when your spirit is lagging and who embrace you when all seems lost.
Providing hope to a pink-wigged crew member thanking a field of walkers as she tells us her cancer has metastasized and you understand she is but one symbol of why you walk 60 miles in 3 days.
Loss when that crew member is no longer there or another person has lost their battle against cancer.
Recognition that this is bigger than all of us. Certainly bigger than money or politics.
Thank you for allowing me to share a small part of my grief. Some will assume I support this side or that, but this post is not about this side or that or placing blame.
It’s about a meaning lost. And that makes me very sad.
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Anne Wayman says
Cathy, I’m so very sorry that Susan G. Komen and her projects were targeted because of their support of Planned Parenthood. I too am conflicted by politics these days. Although I certainly supported what Komen has done I also truly believe they made a huge mistake by removing their support from Planned Parenthood because of those on the right who are determined to sink Roe v Wade. We’ll never know what might have happened had Komen refused.
hugs, and know you’re loved and I too share your grief about it all.
Cathy says
Thank you, Anne.Your love is felt.
Julie Ewert says
Beautifully said Cathy. The memories of my 60 mile walks remain vivid and make this all the more confusing and painful. I appreciate the reminder that you offer dear friend.
Cathy says
Julie: All of the conflict cannot take away our cherished friendship. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Our friendship is very special to me.